If you go by statistics, Ookubo Matsue (ๅคงไน ไฟๆพๆต) wasn’t supposed to go anywhere. A middle school dropout who left her parents’ house in her mid-teens, Matsue had little education, few supporters, and fewer prospects. She sank deeper and deeper into layers of Japan’s sexual underworld, from which few women ever escape.
But Matsue was a phoenix. Demonstrating a tenacity in controlling her own destiny, and an uncanny ability to rebrand herself, Matsue – reborn as Iijima Ai (้ฃฏๅณถๆ) – made the unlikely leap from video porn star to TV variety show staple.
Unfortunately for Ai, her triumph over adversity would prove short-lived. An unexpected health setback led to a tragedy that, a decade later, is still the subject of rumor and speculation.
From Matsue to Iijima Ai
Iijima Ai was born in Tokyo in 1972. (That’s eight months before your intrepid author, which makes said author feel very old).
Ai spent the first chunk of her life navigating her rigid household. In her autobiography Platonic Sex, she describes her parents as incredibly strict. Both focused relentlessly on pushing their daughter to higher and higher levels of achievement. Ultimately, it proved too much pressure for Ai. In one incident, she relates coming home elated that she had gotten 90% on a math test – her weakest subject. But her mother only asked her why she didn’t get 100 like the girl at the top of her class.
Iijima Ai recounts how she yearned to be judged on her own merits:
ใงใใชใใฎใฏ่ชๅใไธ็ชใใใฃใฆใใ
ใใใชใใฎๅชๅใ่ถณใใชใใใ
ๆฏใฏใใคใใใ็งใซใใ็ถใใใ็ฒพใใฃใฑใๅชๅใใใฎใซโฆโฆไธ็ๆธๅฝใใใฐใฃใใฎใใใฎ็ตๆใชใฎใซใใปใใฆใใใใชใใใใใๅชๅใใใฃใฆใใฎๅญใซ่ฟฝใใคใใฆใใใใจใชใใฆใงใใชใใใใคใใใๅชๅใใจใใ่จ่ใๅคงๅซใใซใชใฃใ…ใใใฐใฃใใจใใซใใใใฐใฃใใใจใ่ชใใฆใใใใใใ
I knew more than anyone that I couldn’t do that. “You’re not exerting enough effort.” That’s what my mom always told me. Even though I had given every ounce of effort…I couldn’t win any praise, even though I’d gone all out. No matter how hard I pushed, I’d never catch the other girl. I came to hate the word “effort”. I wanted to be acknowledged when I did my best.
While her mother’s mistreatment of her was emotional, her father’s lapsed into the physical. That increased as Ai became a teenager and grew more rebellious.
In order to escape the tensions in her home, Ai began skipping school and frequenting disco clubs in Shinjuku. She became adept at stealing money from her parents to pay for her adventures.
One night, she recounts her father storming into a club, dragging her home, and cutting her hair off. When Ai resisted, he threw the scissors aside and began beating her. All the while, Ai’s mother begged him to stop.
It wasn’t long after that Ai left her house and moved in with her then-boyfriend. The relationship ended when he caused a scene at his parent’s house and was dragged off to rehab. Nearly broke and desperate, Ai found herself indebted to a man named Ishikawa. He lent her enough money to situate herself in an apartment and keep herself off of the streets. In order to make that money back and sustain herself, Ai entered the world of professional hostesses.
It helps here to understand a little bit about how Japanese nightlife operates. All businesses sexual or sex–adjacent fall under the general purview of the Fuueihou (้ขจๅถๆณ), or Law for Sex Industries. The Fuueihou regulates everything from soaplands, which offer erotic massages, as well as “delivery health” (ใใชใใช), a euphemism for hotel sexual room service.
The Fuueihou also governs businesses that sell sex appeal. This includes host clubs, cabaret clubs, “snacks” and girl’s bars. Essentially, businesses where people come to drink and party and have pretty people laugh at their lame jokes.
Ai found herself in the hostess world before she was legally an adult. It was the roaring 80s. Japan was at its economic peak. The rest of the world feared they would one day just become subsidiaries of Japan Inc. The country was awash in money. Businessmen were not averse to throwing some at beautiful women in exchange for leering at them for a few hours.
Ai worked as a hostess in the Roppongi district of Tokyo, a hotspot for high-end hostess clubs. When her age became an issue, she moved to a more traditional, formal milieu in the ritzier section of Ginza. It was in this world that Ai was christened with her new name:
ใฟใใชใซๆใใใๅญใซใชใใใใซใจใใๅบใฎใใใๆบๆฐๅใใๆใใจใคใใฆใใใใฎใ ใใใไปฅๆฅใ็ฅใๅใฃใไบบใใกใฏใฟใใชใๆใกใใใใจๅผใถใ
The store’s mama [female manager] gave me my working name, “Ai”, so that I’d become a girl who’s loved by everybody. From that day on, everyone who knew me called me “Ai”.
Ai’s life during this time is littered with colorful stories. Like when she shelled out cash to pay for her sex buddy’s gonorrhea treatment. He had started selling himself to various men – including the man who’d lent Ai the money for her apartment.
It was also a time of financial stress. The upkeep of being a hostess – clothes, hair, nails – was a drain on Ai’s finances. The young woman’s penchant for partying didn’t help, either. Additionally, in Japan’s host world, it’s not uncommon for stores to saddle their hosts and hostesses with a customer’s debt when someone stiffs the store on a bill. In short, Ai’s road to “easy money” was anything but.
At age 18, Ai took a trip to New York City. She became so infatuated with the town that she vowed to move there as an exchange student. But by that time, Ai had around US $30,000 of personal debt. And she had another $20K of customer debt the club had laid on her. It would cost even more to enter an exchange student program and move to New York.
To make matters worse, Ai’s ambition was ill-timed. Sin-related businesses in Japan are sometimes called mizu shoubai (ๆฐดๅๅฃฒ), or “water enterprises”). That’s because the profits vary immensely according to the whim of the clientele. Japan’s economic bubble had just burst, and the hostess industry was hit hard by the downturn in discretionary income. It was, in short, a bad time to be selling water.
Ai needed money – lots of it, and quickly. In her mind, that left her with one option.
Iijima Ai: From Porn Star to TV Star
In 1992, at age 19, Ai made her debut as an “AV star” – the Japanese euphemism for the porn industry. The contract term was for a mere three months, from which Ai stood to accrue 10 million yen (around USD $100,000).
Ai approached the work with a “fuck it” swagger. She committed to finishing out her three-month contract and told herself that, if it proved too onerous, she’d simply walk. She insisted on zero actual filmed intercourse. The only actual sex she filmed were the parts that couldn’t possibly be faked.
More than anything, Ai approached the work with no pretensions that it would lead to anything greater. In Platonic Sex, she recalls meeting other girls who viewed the work as a step toward celebrity. “No one in the [AV production] office ever thought that. All these cute girls, who were prettier than celebrities, were used and thrown aside.”
Which makes what happened next especially ironic. As part of her package deal, producers put Ai on late-night TV programs. One was Gilgamesh Night, where she became known as the “Thong Queen” (Tใใใฏใฎๅฅณ็). (Video removed – dead link)
Between her AV movies, her photo shoot compilations, and her TV appearances, Ai became unexpectedly popular. Her production company offered to extend her contract for double her original price. Ai’s popularity spilled into Japan’s exceedingly popular variety show world, and she began appearing on mainstream programs.
In 1994, she officially quit the AV world. In other words, Ai followed exactly the path she had thought was so improbable.
Ai reported losing many friendships – and even a relationship – due to her work in the AV world. One thing she didn’t lose was her parents. Ai reconnected with her mother and father and made amends with both. In her autobiography, Ai published extracts from her mother’s journal from the days when Ai was running wild. After one section in which her mother recounts her joy on a day when Ai actually went to school, the adult Ai reflects:
ๅนณๆฐใงๅใใคใใใใๅนณๆฐใงใ้ใใจใฃใใใฟใใณใใทใณใใผใใใฃใใใ็ทใจใๅฏใใใใใใซใใณใคใคใจๆใฃใฆใใ็งใฏไธๅนธใชๅญใ ใจๆใฃใฆใใใใงใใใใฎใใจใงใๆฏใใใใชใซ่ฆใใใงใใใชใใฆใพใฃใใๆฐใฅใใชใใฃใใ
I brazenly lied; I brazenly took money. I smoked, huffed paint thinner, and slept with boys. I thought it was cool. I thought I was an unlucky child. I never once noticed how much I was hurting my mom.
Over time, Ai’s youthful beauty grew into adult poise. That helped her remain a staple of the variety show circuit for well over the next decade. Periodic appearances on different shows led her to become a recurring guest on programs like London Hearts. Her autobiography, released in 2000, was a titillating bestseller and was eventually made into a semi-autobiographical film.
Ookubo Matsue, a runaway and middle school dropout, was on top of the world. That makes what happened next all the more tragic.
Iijima Ai’s (Mostly) Unexpected Death
In a spot on a variety program recorded around 2005, Ai recounted a trip to a famous fortune teller in Taiwan who gave her a rather unsettling prediction: “She said I’d be dead or something in three years.”
Sadly, that fortune teller was right on the money.
In 2007, Ai announced she was retiring from the entertainment world altogether. At the time, she was dealing with some heavy health issues, including a severe kidney infection that led her to have “urine like tomato juice”. (Apologies to anyone who was drinking a V-8 while reading that…)
Later in the year, Ai talked about what lay ahead for the rest of her life. She talked about how she might become a counselor.
Ai’s last post to her popular blog was on December 5th, 2008. On December 24th, a friend found her unconscious in her apartment. Iijima Ai was dead at the tender age of 36.
Ai’s death has been the source of speculation for years since her passing. The official cause of death was pneumonia, leading many to speculate how a young woman in her mid-30s could die alone in her apartment from a treatable illness.
Some suggested that she had died from AIDS, a rumor based on nothing but her past. Others said she might have accidentally overdosed on sleeping pills. Her personal physician officially denied both rumors in a piece on Excite News last year.
What’s certain is that Ai was admired and loved by many. On February 6th, 2009, variety host Nakai Masahiro devoted the 300th episode of his show as a farewell to Iijima Ai. Her official farewell ceremony was held in Tokyo’s Prince Hotel a month later and was attended by 1500 people. Her blog, which her parents kept running until 2016, became a kind of meeting post for fans for years, who would take to her final post not only to say farewell but to talk to one another.
But although she left the world much loved, she never found what she was truly seeking:
็งใฏใใคใๆขใ็ถใใฆใใใ็ใพใใๆใใใใผใฃใจๆขใ็ถใใฆใใใใใใใใจ้ใชใๅใใใจใใงใใใใผใใไฝใใ็ธๆใใ
I’m always searching. Since I’ve been born I’ve been searching desperately. Searching for a partner with whom I can create a perfectly overlapping heart.
